Friday, January 6, 2012

How can I save someone close to me from herself?

So I have been admiring this girl I'm crazy about from afar for about a year now. She never knew this because that weekend before I was going to ask her out and tell her how strongly I felt about her, she started to date this guy older than her. So I retreated back to distant affection but we were alright friends. I put off asking her out before but now I hesitated to be closer to her because I have this whole moral thing about going after girls already taken. But it was one of her first relationships and she was pretty innocent. So I umed that the relationship would end as fast as it started. So I waited. Days turned to weeks and weeks turned into months. And since I knew her so well and I'm really good at reading people, I knew they were running the bases without giving it a second thought. She didn't even have to say anything. Painful for me. So I just watch the most amazing girl turn for the worst. She seems very dedicated to him even though he's a high school dropout with a dead end job with a lot more ual experience that her. Her best friends don't even like him at all and even tried recommending me a few times. But they couldn't even get through to her and are worried. But after she started sleeping with him, her values that I always admired are starting to turn and she's talks like she aspires to be slut and go and screw different guys. And her only defense is "I use my own personal way of thinking: Fuzzy Logic. I may not have a lot of sense but the sense I have makes sense." And now I want to save the girl who I adored but there seems to only be a ghost of a shell left. So I'm really need some help and advise how I to win her back and restore her inner beauty.

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